Many migrant domestic workers have shared that people in their hometowns have unrealistic expectations of what Hong Kong is like, e.g., everyone can live comfortably and lavishly in Hong Kong. This may lead to unrealistic expectations about your financial situation or living conditions, e.g., your family may expect you to send home more money or materials than you can afford, thus conflicts may arise.
But having enough money for yourself is important, especially when you are living in a foreign country, but your family seems to not “get it”. Or your family may be unfamiliar with the struggles of working overseas. Not only are you facing the loss of your original support network, but having to live with your employer is a sticky situation, especially if you don’t get along. If your family cannot provide the emotional support you need, working in Hong Kong alone may be even tougher.
Communication is important as it helps provide a platform for you to share your experience and challenges with your family, so they can understand what you are going through better.
